Getting Organized About Getting Organized

Getting Organized About Getting Organized

I had an epiphany this week about how my wheels have literally been SPINNING since I quit my full time job on February 4th of this year.  I knew it would be difficult at first to get things rolling, but I didn’t know how difficult it would be to actually GET ORGANIZED.  I tried with all my might to focus and get things done, but as I looked around me, everything was utter chaos.  Some might think that’s just how I am.  I am a creative type.  They may think I like disorder.  But for me, that’s not the case.  I actually CRAVE order.  And even though my life doesn’t always reflect that in how I organize my pantry or do my laundry, I still want to have some sense of what I am supposed to be doing, where I’m supposed to be, and how I’m supposed to be doing it.  And friends, this was NOT happening those first few days of being a solo entrepreneur.  To say I was spinning my wheels was an understatement of the year.  I was flailing and walking in circles.  I was so determined NOT to waste time, that I was, in fact, wasting it by not getting super clear and super organized in my business and personal life.  Does that sound at all familiar to you?

So I literally pressed pause on everything I was trying to do and decided to dedicate the month of February to GETTING ORGANIZED.  It started with sitting down and writing on a blank piece of paper (I love blank paper!!) what I needed to accomplish in my business.  At this point, it wasn’t in any particular order.  It was more of a brainstorm of all the things, processes and ideas about what I wanted to do written out in front of me.

  1. Get my domain registered
  2. Get my domain hosted
  3. Pick a website theme
  4. Create logos and graphics
  5. Find out about course creation platforms
  6. Set up my social media accounts for my business
  7. Year Plan
  8. Month Plan
  9. Daily Plan
  10. Budget personal expenses (aka Family Budget)
  11. Budget business expenses
  12. business schedule
  13. family schedule
  14. grand schedule (combination of two schedules)
  15. studio (office) cleaned up and organized so I can think clearly and get things done

After I did this, I began taking these steps and putting them in order of importance.  In other words, what needs to happen before this happens.  Now, as you can see, there was a LOT to be put into place BEFORE I could actually BEGIN the steps of creating my business and working on it.  And like you may be thinking, I was admittedly a bit overwhelmed by the thought of having to put all these things in place.  But I also knew that I needed to set myself up for success and these steps were super important in order to do that. For instance, if I didn’t have my family budget in place, how could I do my business budget? And if I didn’t know what I wanted to accomplish this YEAR, how could I get crystal clear on what I wanted to accomplish this MONTH, this WEEK and ultimately TODAY???

After I wrote that all out, I made myself another cup of coffee and started to get really excited!  I pulled out my Erin Condren calendar/planner to the month and day I was in and began to map out what days I would spend working.  At this point, I’m not thinking about specific tasks, but rather, what TIMES of what DAYS will I allot to my business.  I made a decision that I would be working on my business from Tuesday to Friday, 5am to 1:30pm. That may seem random to you, but that is the same schedule I had at my full-time job at Apple, so I was already used to this schedule and so was my family.  After I made that decision, I opened up my Google Sheets (have I mentioned how much I love love love Google Sheets??) and began to make columns for MONTHS horizontally like this:  January (already over but still)…February…March…April…(got it?)  Good.  I then took my business checklist I had just written and organized on a piece of paper and wrote the checklist items under each month with things that needed to be done in THAT month.  So under February, I put:  Develop Yearly Plan, Monthly Plan, Daily Plan, Get budget in order, register and host website.  Then in March, I wrote some of the other things I knew I wouldn’t be able to fit in February.  Now, this step was super important because it gave me GOALS to reach and it forced me to be realistic what I could and could NOT accomplish in each given month.  And can I just emphasize that BEING REALISTIC is half the battle for us as business owners–or maybe even more like 98.2%.  For instance, I was already IN February when I began to write out this schedule, so I needed to realize that I would have a shorter time frame in the month of February to get certain things done.  I also knew that, in March, I would have an entire week of not working over spring break, so I had to factor that in as well.  But right now, all I was doing was taking one column per month and writing out an ESTIMATE of what I wanted to do in that month.  Realize that it may change and that’s ok.  This is not a time to be perfect.  (is there ever a time for that?)  This is a time to just start the infant phases of getting a skeletal framework in place and give yourself a visual picture of what you are going to achieve in your business.  Before you do that, you are just spinning.  Does that make sense?  So we’re not even talking about DAYS or WEEKS yet to be clear.  At this point, I was simply just writing out what needed to be done under each month.

After I clarified what it was I needed to do in each month, I then backtracked a bit and wrote out what was compromisable and uncompromisable for me in my life, or, a grand checklist of everything in my life if you will.  Now this step is SUPER important, so please don’t skip this step.  If we don’t take the time to write out what we will and what we won’t compromise, we will be unclear as we go along and make necessary sacrifices in our lives.  This is vital in getting clear as to our understanding of what we’re doing so we can make CONSCIOUS SACRIFICES and not feel GUILTY when we do what we need to do.  I remember, when I had my son, I would get really upset when I would have to go to the bathroom and he would start crying.  It would make me so crazy that I would end up bringing him to the bathroom with me and holding him while trying to go.  Great mental image, I know.  So, my wise sister, seeing how miserable I was said to me, “You need to make a decision about what you will and won’t do as a new Mommy, and stick to it.  Give yourself some groundrules right from the gate.”  This was the best advice I ever got.  From that point on, I decided that I would not be carrying him to the bathroom with me.  If he was upset about my leaving the room, I could put him in front of the open door, but he would not be held while I was going to the bathroom.  It was such a simple decision, but it made such a huge difference and it freed me up and eventually trained him, too.  Miraculous!!  I said all that to say, making a decision on what you will and will not do is necessary for every part of our lives, and our business and family life are no exception.  So, to break this down, here’s what your compromisable and uncompromisable list might look like:

COMPROMISABLE

Sleeping a full 8 hours.

Spending time with friends.

Getting my kids dressed and fed in the morning and kissing them goodbye.

Decorating my house.

Shopping.

Calling people to “chat”.

Spending time on Facebook that doesn’t involve business.

Extracurricular Activities with school, church and community.

Couponing or bargain hunting.

UNCOMPROMISABLE

Picking my kids up from school.

Cooking and eating a healthy, satisfying dinner with my family.

Helping bathe my children and putting them to bed.

Having quiet time in the morning that is just for myself and spending time with God.

Spending quality time with my husband.

Working out every day.

Reaching out to people in need.

Keeping my house picked up and clean.

Paying close attention to and adhering to our family budget. 

The important part of making these lists is to get really specific here.  That way, you can always come back to this list and say, “Oh, yeah…I said I wouldn’t compromise that, and it looks like I am.  Time to change gears!”  It’s a guide.  And that guide is based on who you are and what you are about.  It is the heart of what you do and how you do it!  Don’t skip this!

So…moving on!  After I had created my business checklist of all the things I needed to do, I knew what days and times of the week I’d be working on that and I knew what was important to me and what I would and would not compromise to make it happen, THEN and ONLY then could I get clear on how I was going to go about all of it.  And that meant some really explicit and detailed scheduling — sometimes down to the MINUTE — so that I could make sure it all happened according to the plans I had laid out.  I began the scheduling with a GRAND SCHEDULE which I will provide. This schedule literally maps out my entire week and it includes my family and personal commitments.  I have half-hour times in the first column and then, I have the days of the week horizontally on top:  Sunday, Monday, Tuesday…, and then I have half-hour time slots for each activity.  This looks a lot like a calendar or a day planner.  But the difference between this and your day planner is that it is specifically laid out in time slots.  My biggest piece of advice on this is to get really specific about how you are breaking it all down in terms of when you’ll do what.  Now, this is not the schedule to get super specific about work tasks, but it is merely a framework and screenshot of what your week will look like.  Here’s why this is important:  If you can have a mental image of what your week needs to look like, you won’t be pulled in 10 different directions and you can easily go back to that GRAND SCHEDULE and say, “Nope…I committed to this at this time on this day and it’s happening come hell or high water.”  I have included a downloadable sample of my GRAND SCHEDULE for you to customize and personalize for yourself in this post.

Now, (are you still with me???  please don’t check out YET) after I’ve done all of those steps and made my GRAND SCHEDULE, I then start breaking up tasks and determining when I will do what in my business.  Again, this is not hard and fast.  You can always go back and tweak things and change them as you need to, but it is awesome to have it in writing.  Something about having it in writing keeps you on track and helps you focus on what is important.  The BUSINESS SCHEDULE looks almost identical to the GRAND SCHEDULE except for the fact that I’ve left out the personal details.  This is the schedule to get REALLY specific about how I will break down my business tasks that I had laid out for each month earlier on.  I will still have the time slots in the first column and the days of the week on top, but I will break down my tasks into slots that include specific tasks I will perform on those days at that time.  OH. MY. GOSH. you guys!  Doing this has CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER!!  Knowing what I’m supposed to be doing and when has made my life so much easier.  When someone sends me a text and says, “Hey, you wanna meet for coffee?” I can look at my schedule and say, “You know what?  I’d love to do that, but I have this to do at that time.”  or “You know what?  I would love to!  I have from 11am to 11:45am and then I have to get back to work!”  Talk about DERAIL PREVENTION!!  That’s what this is.  It is DERAIL PREVENTION.  We are preventing ourselves from getting derailed in our dreams and pursuits and we’re planning for our success.

Now that I’ve laid out for you how I got ORGANIZED ABOUT GETTING ORGANIZED in my life and in my business, I want to briefly (this post is already long enough) just talk about some of the fears and hesitation you may be having in even reading this.

…I’m not that organized…

You may be thinking, “Great for her, but I’m just not that organized!”  Well, neither am I, truthfully.  Yes, I have it in me.  And I believe YOU do too.  But it wasn’t until I began to get really serious about my goals for my business that I began to realize the importance of breaking all this down and making it doable for myself.  And here’s the bonus of this:  I did all the heavy lifting FOR YOU!  I created the schedules and laid it out so that all you have to do is put your specific information in there.

…I don’t have that kind of time…

Another thing you may be thinking is, “I don’t have that kind of time!  I work full time.  or I have 3 kids that need me 24/7! or I am a single mom. or I have so much to do!”  You know what?  I get it.  I may not be a single mom, but I am a mother of 3 young children.  I don’t have any family members closeby who can help with the kids.  I was working full-time up until now.  I have quite a few responsibilities.  But you know what?  Nothing in this life is easy.  I know that’s harsh, but it’s true.  If you really want to achieve some goals and make some things happen, you HAVE TO GET ORGANIZED.  Sacrifice is inevitable.  Something will always have to be sacrificed.  Whether it’s sleep…time with your kids…time with your husband…time with friends or extended family members…watching t.v…being on FB…SOMETHING has to give.  And this is merely an exercise in figuring out what you can afford to sacrifice and making it happen intentionally.  Again, I’ve laid out the groundwork for you to do this, so you don’t have to invent the process like I had to, AND I have to remind you that your schedule may look much much different than mine.  You may have only 2 hours a day 4 days a week that you can dedicate to your business…or perhaps even LESS.  The point is, make this YOURS!

this is a lot of work…I’m not ready for this!

Another thought you might be thinking is, “Wow…this is more involved than I thought it would be!  I’m not ready for this!”  And you know what?  That information is really good to know.  If you aren’t in a position where you are ready to get all of this in order, then you can know that you’re not ready to go into business for yourself…right now.  That doesn’t mean you won’t be ready a few months from now or sometime down the road.  If this is you, don’t be discouraged.  I beg you!!  If you feel like this is just too intense, that is your call.  And I will not hold it against  you.  I have had business ideas for YEARS, but I would be lying to you if I told you I was ready to do it before now.  It just wasn’t a priority for me.  But I’m going to be tough love on you again here.  If you are saying this to yourself, you need to ask yourself if you’re just feeling afraid or you are just being lazy.  I know…again…I don’t want to offend you here, but I want to lovingly say that you need to decide what is holding you back.  If you truly don’t think you’re ready, that’s a legit feeling to have.  But if you have an inner nudge that says you need to do this and it keeps coming up for you over and over again, FOR THE LOVE!!!  Just do it!!  And don’t resist this step in getting organized about HOW you do it!!  It is so important for your success.

There’s so much more to say here, but I will leave you with this information for now.  My sincere hope is that it is helpful for you, and I hope that you would share this post with people you know who are struggling with getting organized in their business.  Also, take a moment if you will to subscribe to my email list so you can get more information like this.  And lastly, please comment below.  It helps me to know your feedback and how this has or has not helped you along your journey.

…here’s some FREE stuff for you!!

I’ve included a My Schedule printable download for you to customize to fit your business and schedule.  Like I said, I use and cannot speak highly enough about Google Sheets to help me get really clear on what I need to be doing and when.  Google sheets is great for creating spreadsheets, and if you have a Google account, it can be found in all the extras like docs and photos that you can use with Google.  If you haven’t heard of it, it’s like Excel and it’s free.  You can also share your google sheets with others if you are collaborating.

Enjoy!!!

(and don’t forget that feedback!)

xoxo,

Amy

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Redeeming the Time

Redeeming the Time

Before I began working full time outside of the home, I always thought my lack of success in business or even things at home was a direct reflection on me.  I would beat myself up about the fact that I could never figure out how to find time to do anything.  And I’m not even talking about BIG THINGS.  I’m referring to small things like:  getting laundry folded and put away, cleaning out clutter, organizing my pantry, cleaning up my backyard, putting up picture frames, or (gasp!!) filling out even ONE word, let alone a memory, in my children’s baby books.  Now, I’ll be real with you.  I didn’t lose sleep over any of that.  Truthfully, I’m not that ambitious of a person by nature, and I knew if I let myself get obsessed about ALL THE THINGS I simply couldn’t find time or energy to do, I’d lose my mind.  So I didn’t obsess.  I didn’t let myself go into deep depression over it.  But I did feel frustrated.  I did feel like I didn’t measure up in a lot of ways.  Sure, my kids were happy…I was somewhat happy on the surface, but a big part of me felt disheveled and completely chaotic.

Then I began working. Full time.  Outside the home.  From 5am to 1:30pm.  Every day.

I tell you that because it was a complete shift in my perspective of what I could accomplish and what I could not do.  And the list of things I could not do were FAR greater than the things I could do.  I could:  get groceries from the grocery store.  I could put those groceries away.  I could cook a simple dinner.  I could clean up the bathrooms.   I could throw laundry IN the washer…and later IN the dryer.  I could KISS my kids goodnight and hug them as much as I could when I saw them.  I could briefly chat or text my husband about his day.  I could write a check to my daughter’s preschool and sometimes even put that check in her school folder so it got to the school’s director without a late fee.

I could not, however:

  1. Scrub my kitchen floors
  2. Cook yummy dinners
  3. Blog about my day
  4. Keep track of our family budget
  5. Call friends or family members and chat
  6. Spend quality time watching a great show in front of the t.v. with my husband and a glass of wine
  7. Shave my legs
  8. Wash my hair frequently
  9. Go out with girlfriends
  10. Spend lots of quality time taking my kids places
  11. Deep clean my bathroom
  12. Make sure my house was “presentable”
  13. Organize my photos
  14. Backup my harddrive
  15. Backup my phone storage
  16. Take long baths
  17. Clean up junk mail
  18. Sift through all the paperwork
  19. File away important documents
  20. Get laundry from dryer and fold it

And oh…the list goes on, but I will spare you ALL THE THINGS I COULDN’T DO WHEN I WAS WORKING FULL TIME.

So, this shift…this mental shift I had when I was working, helped me to realize that all this time I once THOUGHT I had was a myth.  It simply wasn’t true.  Now, yes, I was home more when I was a stay-at-home Mama, but the time I had to actually DO things was zip, zilch, nada, nil.

I said all that to say, that once I decided to quit my job and start working for myself FULL TIME, I quickly learned, once again, that even though my kids were not with me for a good portion of the day like they had once been, I still was racing the clock and spinning my proverbial wheels and finding that I wasn’t getting anything actually DONE in my day.

I think the concept of TIME is a real, booty kicking interesting concept, don’t you?  I think we always THINK we have more time than we do, and we’re always SURPRISED when we discover that we’ve RUN OUT of time.  I firmly believe that this is why the Apostle Paul warns us in Ephesians 5:15-16 to “Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk—not as unwise people but as wise—making the most of the time, because the days are evil.” (HCSV)  In the King James Version it says, “Redeeming the time…” and I like that word “redeem” because it really hits the nail on the head.  If we don’t pay CAREFUL attention to our time, it will POOF!! be gone!!  In an instant.  In a heartbeat.  Not only is LIFE itself super short, but our days are SO MUCH SHORTER.  So it’s unbelievably vital for us to KNOW EXACTLY what we need to be doing with every moment of our every day.  We don’t have time to waste.  

Post #3 – My Big AH-HA! Moment

In the post before this one, I shared with you how listening to podcasts and audiobooks literally TRANSFORMED MY LIFE!!  I am THE evangelist for podcasts who will tell you that podcasts are THE BOMB!  If you aren’t already listening AVIDLY to podcasts, NOW is the time to get started!

While I was sitting there at my desk job at Apple and listening to podcasts like a fiend, I had an epiphany, and it went something like this:

These people are NO different than me.  They just got started and are doing it.  I have every. bit. of ability. stamina. motivation. talent that THESE PEOPLE I’m listening to have.  THAT’S IT!!!  THIS IS WHAT I’M SUPPOSED TO BE DOING!!

And that was it.  There was no more turning back.  There was no more thinking, “Gee…I really wish I had the drive to do something amazing.”  All there really was at that point was POWER.  I now felt completely empowered and equipped to get this all figured out and just DO it!  Like the Nike ad, “JUST DO IT!”  It made so much sense to me.  I had spent years turning my wheels and wondering what I was supposed to do.  And then I just realized that the people who are successful are only successful because they have just done it.  They have done it.  Failed.  Done it again.  Tried.  Failed.  Gotten back up.  Done it again.  And eventually…if they kept with it, they were successful at it.

So what had tripped me up all those years?  The answer is simple and oh so common:  FEAR OF FAILURE.  It had plagued me like nothing else could.  Fear of failure had left me paralyzed and useless.

But no more.  I was determined to make something happen.  And I want to share that determination with you.  YOU can make something happen too.  We are in this together.

So…JUST DO IT!

Post #2 – How Podcasts and Audiobooks Saved Me

While working at Apple on the Maps Team, I quickly discovered that I was allowed to listen to things on my headphones while working.  BONUS!!  I love love love music, but since I’m a singer, I had a hard time listening to the music on my headphones without blurting out what I was hearing.  I’m also a life-long learner and wanted the time there to be worthwhile for me, as sometimes the job itself was admittedly a little boring.  OK…a lot boring.

I remember the first day of training when I discovered podcasts.  I had heard people mention that they listened to podcasts, but I had never really explored what they were and what interest I would have in listening to them.  After all, I had 3 kids.  Who needed more voices to hear and things to do???  Not moi.  But this…this job…allowed me to sit and listen to whatever I wanted to hear, so it seemed only logical to figure out what that would be.  I started with podcasts of preachers.  I’ve always loved hearing passionate, articulate preachers deliver a good message.  I thought, “Oh…this will be great!!!  I’ll be in a position to be uplifted WHILE I work!!!”  And one day, while listening to a preacher I loved to hear, I started noticing there were literally podcasts with all different kinds of topics and subject matter.  I bounced around a little here and there and started becoming familiar with the navigation around podcasts and key words to enter in the search bar, and discovered an entire world of valuable information delivered RIGHT INTO MY HEADPHONES!

One of the first small business podcasts I listened to was Chalene Johnson’s “Build Your Tribe”.  On this podcast, Chalene interviews leaders in the online business industry and talks about her own personal journey while sharing amazing tips and tricks for getting your online business off the ground.  Once I ran out of podcast episodes from Chalene, I started researching some of the people she had been interviewing and discovered Pat Flynn, Michael Stelzner, Michael Hyatt and Lewis Howes.  Pat Flynn was a huge resource for me at the beginning.  I even downloaded and listened to his audiobook entitled “Will It Fly?” and was super intrigued by the amazing insight and educational content value his business Smart Passive Income provides.  Then…somewhere in there, I discovered Amy Porterfield, and let me just tell you, my whole perspective on what I was supposed me doing changed in a heartbeat!  If I weren’t clear on what I was supposed to be doing BEFORE listening to Amy Porterfield, I was CERTAINLY clear now.  She has podcasts on everything from facebook tips to creating content for your online business.  Her tagline is “Online Marketing Made Easy” and she certainly makes it sound like it is!

So now, I will just tell you that I am an evangelist for good podcasts that share AMAZING information and help people like me get their game on and figure out what it is we’re supposed to be doing!

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