Part 1 – My Why

Part 1 – My Why

If you read last week’s blog post entitled, Getting Back to Singing, you’ll know that I am starting a 4-part series that guides readers through a very important initial step in getting back to singing again after a singing hiatus.

Today is Part #1 of this series and it’s all about MY WHY, because I think it’s so important to be a detective and really get down to the heart of why you want to sing in order for you to put your first foot forward, start singing again and get some serious traction!

So what’s your why?  Why do YOU want to sing?

I’ll tell you a little bit about my why in hopes that it helps you think more about yours:

I’ve always loved to sing since I was a wee bitty little thing.  I remember holing up in my room listening to and memorizing all the lyrics to my favorite songs and gathering up my sisters, friends and cousins every time I got the chance so we could “perform a concert.”  I remember that music and singing were always such a huge part of my life, and listening to singers sing solos at church was so awe-inspiring for me.  I remember a family friend singing, “We Shall Behold Him” by Sandi Patty at my Aunt Georga’s funeral and realizing that I needed to learn to sing that song too.  I also remember getting a hold of that Sandi Patty cassette tape (I know that dates me!) and listening to it over and over again while trying to sing the high notes like she did.  I didn’t do it very well, but I was passionate and I was determined!

As I grew, I remember wanting to join the choir in middle school.  And then again in high school.  And then majoring in music education with an emphasis in vocal performance in college.  I remember having a good deal of success singing and getting positive feedback for how I was progressing.  But then something happened…

Somewhere down the road, singing became hard.  It became painful.  I received harsh criticism.  I got rejected.  I had teachers whose motives weren’t the purest.  I had competitive singer friends who were out for their own gain and weren’t encouraging about my attempts at success.  I started questioning everything I was doing.  I developed paralyzing stage fright and an unrelenting anxiety around singing.

While I continued singing off and on through the years, I could never really shake the internal, paralyzing fear I couldn’t shake and the feelings that singing brought up for me.  The wounds were deep.  It became easier for me to do something else that I wasn’t so attached to…something I wouldn’t receive so much criticism for.  Something that wouldn’t bring up so much pain.

In the meantime, I had 3 beautiful children.  It was really easy for me to just dive deeply into the role of motherhood and forgo all of my past endeavors and passions in order to give all I had to my babies.  So that’s just what I did.  And for a while, it worked.  I have loved being a Mommy more than anything else I’ve ever done in my life!  But something was missing.  Something began to gnaw at me.  I missed singing.

Gradually, I started sitting down at my piano again.  I started getting out art songs and hymns and then eventually, I started dusting off my arias.  I remembered a time where I was fortunate enough to have a voice lesson with the great, Canadian tenor, Ben Heppner, while living in Vienna, and I’ll never forget that lesson and what he said to me:

If you’ve lost your joy of singing, you’ve gotta go back to your roots.  What made you love singing at the beginning?  What were those songs that inspired you and made you want to sing? Sing those songs. You’ve gotta find your joy again.

I share this story with you to get your wheels turning about YOUR story.  What is YOUR WHY?  What were the songs or the singers that initially inspired you to sing?  What was or is the part about singing that you love?

Forget the critics.  Forget the big ideas or dreams you wish you were achieving but aren’t.  Forget the envy you may have of others who are doing what you always wanted to do.  You don’t know their story or their struggle.  Forget the let downs and the pain you may have felt when someone rejected you or you didn’t get the recognition you thought you should have had for your vocal potential.

Now is your chance to find out that thing about singing that brings you joy.  And get this…this is YOUR life!  You get to decide how to spend your days and what you want to do.  No one else can limit you and keep you from your dreams!  If the worship team is full and doesn’t have room for another vocalist, find another worship team.  If the choir you want to sing with says they aren’t holding auditions, find another choir.  If you didn’t get that solo part you were hoping to land, there are plenty of nursing homes full of people who would LOVE to hear you!  If no one calls you back when you send them your demo, keep on making and sending out your demos.  Someone will eventually bite.  And if they don’t, you still have that JOY that singing brings you.  Sing for yourself!!!

Can you tell I’m passionate about this whole WHY thing?  Because I’ve lived it.  I’m still living it now.  I’m not doing all the things I’d love to be doing vocally because being a Mommy of 3 little ones simply doesn’t leave room for all of it.  I’m not singing at all the venues I’d love to be singing in or doing all the auditions I could be doing.  But that doesn’t mean I can’t sing for myself.  It doesn’t mean I can’t sing for my children or with them.  It doesn’t mean I can’t engage in an activity that truly, deeply, brings me joy!

So find your why today, my friend!

I’ve included a free printable download you can get right here.  This My Why Guide will ask you questions that trigger your answers and help you find your why for singing!

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Happy Singing!!!

xoxo

Part 1 – My Why

Back to Singing

I love to sing, but my voice and my confidence level need a lot of work if I’m ever going to sing in public.  I just don’t know where to start.

I suppose I really should find a good voice teacher and start working on my voice.  I feel like I know the basics of singing, but I need a refresher to get back in the groove!

I’d love to sing more often and maybe do something more with my voice, like: audition for the worship team, sing with the band or in that choir.  But I need help getting my voice back in shape.

I have fond memories of a time in my life when I was actively singing.  I’d give anything to make space for that again in my life.  I really miss singing!  I’m just so busy!  Where would I fit it in?

Sound familiar?  If so, you’re in the right place, and I hope I can facilitate you in getting back to singing again as quickly as possible!

I, too, went through a really long season of not singing myself, so I can totally relate!  And I majored in vocal performance and had already been singing professionally before I went on my singing hiatus!  After having 3 children over a period of 8 years, however, the idea of trying to find time, space in my head and money to take voice lessons with my graduate professor all seemed like an impossible feat.  And to be honest, it was impossible at that time.  And in my mind, I thought I was OK not singing and devoting all my energy to my children.  I mean, after all, I had had 30+ years of sowing my singing oats and now was a time I wanted to give parenting all my effort and take care of my babies.  And I’m so glad I did that.  I can never get those years back, and I feel like I spent them wisely and have no regrets.  But there came a time when I started to feel like I desperately needed to jump back into singing again, and I deeply missed it — like I had lost a limb.

If this, too, sounds familiar to you, I want to encourage you.  Being a Mommy or taking care of a parent or a sick loved one or any other time-consuming endeavor that could take you away from your passion is OK for a while.  But we always want to return to what makes us who we are and find a way to learn and grow, despite all of our responsibilities — and in my case, little people, who depend on me.  If we don’t find that time to develop our passions, we eventually start to become bitter and often wonder what is missing in our lives while swimming in a sea of chores and activities that bear little resemblance to who we once were or what we find joy in doing.  Think of it like an oxygen mask we have to put on ourselves before we can be the best for others around us.  Singing is our oxygen mask and it can serve us in so many ways that other activities cannot.  It can also bless people around us, too.  I never realized that, while depriving myself of singing, I was also depriving my young children of hearing me sing and enjoying music themselves in the way that I enjoyed it.  Funny how that works.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be deep diving into a 4-part series that will:

  1. Define My Why (Why Do I Sing?)
  2. Identify the Pain Points of Not Singing (with stable technique and confidence…or at all)
  3. Overcome the Challenges (of fitting singing back into our lives)
  4. Finding the Best Vocal Coach for Me

With all of these components in place, I am 100% certain that we can begin to understand why we need to be singing and begin restructuring our schedules (and budget) so singing can become a priority and a vital part of our lives again.  I’ll take you step by step, so you don’t get overwhelmed, and I’ll help you find that sweet spot where you are singing again and still have plenty of time do take care of all your other life responsibilities!

Life is too short not to be using our voices and enriching our lives and the lives of those who hear us with singing!

So, let’s get started, shall we?

In the meantime, I’ve created a Sing! Sheet for you to begin to break down the importance of getting back to singing and help you navigate through this series with clarity and direction.  So don’t miss out!  Sign up below and get your Utlimate Guide to Getting Back to Singing CHECKLIST that you can download and print out.

Happy Singing!!

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Part 1 – My Why

Defining My Avatar

You don’t have to spend too much time in your business to realize that you need to define who your ideal customer is.  In online business, the prominent term for this is referred to as an avatar, and it refers to an all-encompassing term that includes several factors we need to consider when we are focusing on targeting and speaking directly to our ideal customer.  Even though we might also reach beyond our ideal customer, and we may even eventually have multiple avatars for different segments of our business, it is crucial that we begin with one central avatar for our business and heavily focus our advertising campaigns on reaching that ideal customer with all our might.

There are a number of questions you will want to get super specific about when creating your avatar, but for the sake of simplicity and ease, I want to focus on the first two questions I personally feel are the most important when determining and creating your avatar.  1.  Who are we?  and 2.  For Whom?

Who Are We?

As in, who is my business?  What are we about?  What do we look like?  Feel like?  Smell like?  Talk like?  What is our motto?  What are we known for?  What do we want to be known for?  This may seem obvious, but it also may not be something that comes easy for us initially.  When I think of who I am as a business, I think a lot about the first and lasting impression I want people to have when they see my brand.  I also think about things like the kind of vibe I want to give off, the style of my website and logo and the unspoken and spoken authority my business has in its industry.  This causes me to need to do a little research, and find out what I like to look at online and what the brands inspire and leave a lasting impression on me.  And I’ve realized more and more that I need to do this often to stay current and see what others are doing in terms of demonstrating characteristics that I want my company to have.  It may seem silly, but even font and graphic choices go a long way in terms of impression and demonstrating a specific idea in our minds. Sometimes it’s obvious and other times it’s very subtle.  For instance, some fonts appear more authoritative, elite and chic while others may be crafty, cutesy or whimsical.  Also, is the font too small or too busy to read easily?  I don’t want to spend too long on this topic, but it begs a little bit of our care and attention, and I know personally what I think about as soon as I see the fonts on a website and read the copy in an ad.  And so should you!  To help me with this process, I’ve installed an app on my browser called “Font Ninja”.  If I’m on a website and just really like the look of it and feel, I can turn on Font Ninja and it allows me to see which font they used.  I love it!!  I’m nerdy like that. 😉  Graphics are very similar.  If I see an out-of-date graphic on a website, it causes me to question if the business is really serious and forward thinking or behind the times.

So, think about what you like to see.  What leaves an impression on you that you want your customers to have when they see your brand?  Get as specific as possible.  Nothing you write down is stupid or irrelevant if it is truly what you want your impression to be.

For Whom?

This one may take you a little more time to figure out.  I’ve found that my ideal client and who my clients actually tend to be are sometimes different people.  Sometimes, we may start out with a broad idea about who are clients are (everyone), and then realize over time, with savvy advertising strategies, that we are able to niche down into something more specific (women in their 30s and 40s who live in rural towns).  Play around with it.  Create ads on Facebook or Instagram and start broad and narrow down after you see your statistics and who is responding.  But the bigger and more helpful questions might be, “Who do I want my customer to be?” and “Who is like me?” or “Who can I help the most?”  This is a great place to start, and testing out your ads and noticing who responds to your posts are great ways of identifying who you are speaking to.  Businesses who take the time to carefully define their ideal client are more likely to become crystal clear with how they advertise and what they achieve with their advertising efforts.

More and more lately, I’ve been hearing and reading about business owners who identify their specific clients and even give them names.  I heard a podcast the other day where a business owner was describing this woman in her mid-thirties who lived on a farm in California and raised goats.  This woman made goat milk soap and sold it at her local farmers’ market.  Anthropologie associates just happened to be walking through that farmers’ market one Saturday afternoon and they were interested in carrying her soap in their stores.  She has to find out how to mass produce the soap and package it in a way that would sell to Anthropologie customers.  This was her ideal client. That’s pretty specific right?  That’s how specific we need to be.  We need to tell our client’s story from start to finish, so we can begin to answer their questions and address their pain points from the gate.

When we ask these questions, we really get the ball rolling with our business and find out what we’re actually about.  It helps us begin the process of fine tuning our business and understanding who we want to be as a business brand and who we are marketing to.  And, truth be told, this is my favorite part of the whole process!

So, get to work, my friend!  To make it easier for you, I’ve created a printable sheet you can download and fill out for your own business.  And ideally, I’d love for you to print out this sheet and put it and the ones that will follow about your avatar at the very beginning of your business notebook.  It really helps to think these things through!  So enjoy!  And if you get the chance, share with me what you found out by doing this simple exercise.  If you’ve done it before, it’s OK.  You can always do it again.

As always, please feel free to share this with someone else who may need it.  And tell me how you liked it! 🙂

Grab your worksheet here!

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Part 1 – My Why

Let’s Start Singing!

Let’s start at the very beginning…

…a very good place to start.  Sorry…a little Sound of Music reference there.  When it comes to singing, however, whether we are just beginning to sing or starting over, we need to first understand the fundamentals…the basics, if you will.  So that, my friend, is what I wish to lay out for you right here…right now.  Because, there’s no other place I wanna be.  (ugh…sorry again.  It’s a problem of mine.)

Anyway…

When a student comes to me for the very first time, I never assume that they know everything there is to know about singing.  After all, if they did, they wouldn’t be needing a lesson from me, now would they?  Instead, I ask them a series of questions about what they know and what they feel they need to know in order to be the best singer they can be right now…or very quickly.  Whether a student can articulate all of that is irrelevant, but usually they can describe to me what isn’t working.  And usually, their instincts are right!

So, here are a few questions I ask a new student, and the (bold parenthesis) are what it tells me about how we’ll begin our journey.  As you read through these, ask yourself the same questions:

  1. How long have you been singing? Have you had any formal training?  (experience and knowledge about singing)
  2. What are you working on? (repertoire interest as well as knowing who they are)
  3. What do you know about breathing? (knowledge about breath management)
  4. What do you know about sound?  (knowledge about the vocal tract and resonance)
  5. What’s your sign?  Just kidding…just wanted to make sure you’re paying attention.
  6. What do YOU feel works really well in your voice?  (strengths and confidence)
  7. What do YOU feel like you need help with?  (self and vocal awareness and needs)
  8. What is your goal for taking lessons or enrolling in online vocal training?  (setting goals and making a plan)

If I can get this information up front, it takes a lot of guesswork out of the picture.  And both the singer and I can be clear about what it is we’re aiming for.  Without these important answers, we’re just blindly wondering around trying out vocal exercises and flipping through pages of song books without a goal.

So, if I may ask, what are your answers to these questions?  By answering them, you should start to get clear on some things and hopefully, get really excited about singing!  I know it makes me excited.  And I sometimes even go back and ask myself those questions from time to time in order to stay in check with myself and make sure I’m on the right track.

So, when it comes to technical knowledge, the obvious first big question has to do with breath management and breathing.  What terminology are you familiar with?  What do you use to inhale?  Is it the mouth or the nose?  Where are the lungs?  Where is the rib cage?  Typically, I get students who mention that they breathe through the mouth, although some have suspected the nose is also involved.  Most students know about some vague thing called the “diaphragm” and talk about breathing coming from somewhere in their belly region.  So, I begin tackling that topic by making sure they understand precisely where they breathe from and how the breath works for singing.  This concept of body mapping was taught to me by my graduate professor, and it works wonders in helping us find a place to start and getting us from Point A to Point B as quickly and efficiently as possible.

So, here, I’ve broken down some basic concepts that I always try to clarify within the first lesson or two:

  • We breath through the mouth.  First off, we want to note that we breathe through our mouths when we sing–unlike yoga where we breath through our noses.  We do this because, well, we can inhale more air through our mouths.  And, our mouth is like a stage that we set up for that initial sound to be produced.  We want to make sure it is open in the back with an elevated soft palate (which we won’t go into depth about here) and the opening in the front of the mouth is also relaxed and open to the degree it needs to be opened for the first sound we will produce.  Breathing through our nose has the opposite effect:  It causes our soft palate to be lowered and can result in a nasal sound.  Plus, our noses cannot inhale a whole lot of air, so we will come up short when we have to sing long passages.  Just say NO to breathing through the nose.  Except for yoga.  OK, moving on…
  • Locate rib cage and lungs.  The rib cage starts much higher and end much lower than we think it does.  It begins right beneath the shoulder blades and ends right at the middle of our upper body just above where our elbows hit when we allow our arms to dangle down.  Our lungs are housed inside our rib cage, and also begin just beneath the shoulder blades.  We have no lungs in our stomach region.  Many times, singers feel sympathetic movement in their stomach, but this is not where the lungs are and not where we should focus when we breathe.  Also, the lungs are not just in the front of our bodies, but they are present within our sides and back.  I like to refer to the lungs as an inner tube of air going all around our upper body.  When we breath for singing, that inner tube expands all around and supports our sound.

Here is a picture of our rib cage and lungs.  See how high up they are?  Who knew?  (well, I kinda did…)

  • Dispel the diaphragm myth.  The diaphragm itself is an involuntary muscle that runs through the middle of our upper body, directly below the lungs.  I repeat, it is an involuntary muscle.  That means, we have no control over it — at least not directly.  We don’t do anything with the diaphragm, and we can’t feel it.  The diaphragm does have a job, but we use other muscles to control it and not the diaphragm itself.  I’m not sure how it got to be such a popular term within the vocal arena and why it’s talked about so often within the choral world, but it is irrelevant for singers to know about.  There.  I said it.  My philosophy here is, if we can’t control it, why should we talk about it and focus on it?  It makes singing too complicated.  And no student I’ve ever met understands what it means or what it does.  So, why talk about it?  Who cares?  OK, I’ll step off my diaphragm hotbox and move on, K?

Here is a picture of the involuntary diaphragm contracting when we inhale.  See the arrow showing how the diaphragm descends down?

Here is a picture of the involuntary diaphragm relaxing when we are completely out of breath.  That is the diaphragm’s natural resting state.        

  • Appoggio.  Now, before you think I’ve switched over to Italian and you tune me out, just stay with me.  This is the real deal.  This is the good, important stuff we need to be talking about in terms of breath control.  The word appoggio (pronounced uh-podge-oh) comes from the Italian word appoggiare, which means “to lean into something”.  When we sing, we use our intercostal muscles, that are in between our ribs, function to create a resistance and help control our air flow.  So instead of addressing the overly-used “diaphragm spiel,” I talk about the appoggio.  When we expand our rib cage (like we would if someone were to sucker punch us or how we do if we’re surprised), we allow space for our lungs to then expand.  So try that.  Expand your rib cage and inhale (through your mouth) and concentrate only on the lungs expanding and nothing below.  When we use the appoggio, we basically resist deflation or retard the ascension of the diaphragm.  And that, my friends, is breath control — in a super-condensed nutshell.

Here is a picture that shows the antagonistic muscles, the external and the internal intercostal muscles.  These muscles oppose or resist the actions of each other.  This antagonistic action is the appoggio in action!

To demonstrate this concept, I always ask the student to place his/her hands around my rib cage (but only if he/she is comfortable doing so) and I show them how I breathe.  This area around the rib cage is, generally-speaking, right below the breast where the rib cage is a bit more elongated.  When the student feels the resistance I use when I sing, most of them are totally surprised that this is what is what should be happening.  Then, after I have demonstrated how it should work, I ask the student to allow me to put my hands around their rib cage and guide them to resist with those intercostal muscles we just spoke about and utilize their appoggio as well.  It always feels awkward for them at first, but then, I always see a light bulb go on, and they smile with a really cheesy big smile, because THEN…they get it!

After we’ve done that, I do a series of breathing exercises where I ask them to inhale and do this:

  1. Ch-Ch-Ch | Ch-Ch-Ch | Chhhhhhhhhhh until they have no breath left.  I ask them to feel the resistance.  We do a few of those, and then we do:
  2. S-S-S | S-S-S | Sssssssssssss until they have no breath left.

After we do a few of those to really feel the resistance of those muscles, we then work on singing through some phrases — either from a song they already know or a simple vocal exercise and focus on that area a little more.  I may spend a lesson or two on the concept of breathing and breath management while allowing them to sing their songs they brought in or already know.  My goal of each lesson is to give them as much knowledge I can while allowing them to do what they came to do in the lesson:  sing.  However, the concept of breathing and breath management is one that comes up a lot throughout my time with each student, and we must continually readdress it and sometimes relearn how to utilize this savvy singers’ tool effectively!

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Was this helpful for you?

If this post helped you, I’d love to hear about it!  Has anyone talked about the concept of using your appoggio before — either in a lesson or another learning setting?  Did I clear up any myths or issues you may have previously had about the diaphragm?  If so, I’d love to hear about it in the comments below.  Also, please do me a favor and share this post now if there is someone you may know who might need to hear this information.  Knowing the correct information is vital when it comes to developing your voice as a singer!

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What is (good) Singing?

“How was the concert last night?”

“Terrible!  Her recordings sound so much better than she sounds live!”

or…

“I love her voice!  She has such a beautiful tone.  I wish I could sing like that!”

or…

“He has a nice voice, but he’s pitchy.”

or…

“Her voice is so nasally.  It’s hard to listen to.”

When it comes to the art of singing, most of us — even the untrained ear — knows what we like and what we don’t like to listen to.  While singing may seem to be objective on many levels, and we may prefer one style or voice over another, most of us know good singing as well as poor singing when we hear it.  However, many of us can’t adequately define what good singing really is if we had to articulate it.  But fortunately for you, I can shed some light on the subject and help you define good singing, so you can know what to aim for with your own voice.

So, if I’m going to define what good singing is, it’s probably a lot more helpful for you if I first define what incorrect, or perhaps, undesirable singing is.

We’ve all heard her, right?  I kindly refer to her as the “Choir Lady”.  The one who sings every song to the top of her lungs in church, but she really shouldn’t.  It’s embarrassing for those of us around her, and we wonder why her sweet husband doesn’t do something.  Perhaps he’s deaf.  But, God bless her, it’s her passion, and we want to allow her to live it out.  By the grace of God.  Her voice definitely has a ring to it.  I’ll give her that.  We can ALL hear her.  But it’s more of a strident tone without balance and depth, and many times, it’s just a hair (or two) flat or sharp.

Oh, and then there’s “Guitar Guy”.  He loves to get out his guitar and play for friends after he’s had a beer or two.  He always fondly refers to the time he was asked to sing at his best friend’s wedding or the garage band he played with in high school.  He follows all the great, guitar-playin’ singers/songwriters of his genre, and he’s always working on learning something new.  We all cheer him on, and genuinely want him to do well, but it’s hard not to notice how strained he gets when his voice has to soar up into the higher part of his register.  He gets by with his unsupported middle range tones, but he sounds a little too much like a semi-trained, high school choir bass with a transitioning voice than he does like Eric Clapton.  We all wish he’d either not sing songs with notes he can’t easily reach or take voice lessons.  The beer might be helping his confidence, but it isn’t helping his sound.

Then there’s “One-Style-Sarah” who doesn’t quite know how to change things up when she sings.  When we first heard her, we were impressed.  “This girl can sing!” we all thought admiringly.  Until we heard the next song…and the next…and the one after that.  Oh, I guess she only has one trick up her 3/4 length sleeve:  choppy, extremely breathy and using wayyyy too much vocal fry*.  One-Style-Sarah can really only sing in one genre in one type of way, and while it’s clear she’s mastered that, any other genres or styles turn her upside and on her fashionable head.  Not only that, but she, more times than not, chooses repertoire (songs) that really don’t fit her voice well.  So, when she gets to the uncomfortable parts of the songs she sings, she either drops out or goes even more into her redundant, breathy style.

Now, this may seem harsh, but we’ve all heard these types of singers.  Maybe you’re even one of them.  And just to be clear, I’m not making fun.  As a teacher, I’ve seen all of these singers come into my studio, as well as many more types I won’t mention, but believe it or not, there is a lot of commonality among them.  And for lack of a better term, we’ll just say they represent the undesirable singing category.

So what exactly is undesirable singing?  So glad you asked!

Here’s a list of 10 Undesirable Singing Traits:
  1. Overly breathy – lacks substance, lacks volume control
  2. Overly strident – too bright and in your face
  3. Overuse of vocal fry*
  4. Nasal (lowered soft palate)
  5. Out of tune (either too flat or too sharp)
  6. Vocally strained
  7. One dynamic (always too loud or too soft)
  8. Too stiff (unmovable)
  9. Out of control
  10. Raspy

Now, wait a minute!!  Some of these traits are a matter of opinion.  I like to hear a raspy voice!  What about Janice Joplin?  What about Adele!?

Yes, I agree.  I love both of these singers…and you may love to hear some of these traits, like raspiness, in moderation, but if they are all the singer has access to, they will, over time, eventually give out.  In other words, we may enjoy hearing some of these attributes, but the singer using them needs to be aware that they are going to cause vocal issues down the road if he/she continues to employ them all the time.  Make sense?

There are many factors that cause undesirable singing to occur.  And one common thread through them all is a lack of proper breath management or support.  There are a couple, like vocal fry* that are just trendy and overly done for effect.  And the out of tune trait is one that usually rises up out of other dysfunctions like performance anxiety or lack of tuning to the fundamental as well as the harmonics in the space.  Nasal singing often occurs because of a lowered soft palate (the roof of the mouth that raises when we yawn) and singing with one dynamic is generally just an awareness or personality issue:  the singer either likes to hear himself singing loudly or is too timid or perhaps lacks the resonance to sing any other level but softly.

While this list is by no means exhaustive, it does hilight some of the most common undesired singing traits we hear from other singers and personally experience in our own voices.  And the good news is, every single one of these, outside of a medical issue, can be resolved with proper vocal training and a good, solid technique.

So, if all of those are the undesirable traits, what are the good ones?  What actually is good singing?  Well, fortunately for you, I’ve complied a list of these as well.

Here’s a list of 10 Desirable Singing Traits:
  1. Balance between breath and resonance vs. too breathy or strident
  2. Balance between light and dark throughout registers (chiaroscuro) vs. too bright or too dark
  3. Clear and focused vs. raspy
  4. Free (not strained) vs. strained; pinched
  5. Supported with breath energy vs. throat singing
  6. Controlled vs. out of control
  7. Flexible and Agile vs. stiff
  8. In tune vs. out of tune
  9. Natural vibrato
  10. Evenness throughout range, vowels and dynamic levels

Again, I could go on and on with desirable singing traits, but for the sake of this post, I’ll only list these as being among the most important, or most noticeable singing traits that we desire to have and listen to in other singers.  And if you don’t understand what a lot of these traits mean or how to implement them, don’t fear!  This is not an exercise in how much you already know, but rather, me trying to explain some rather complex vocal terms in a non-complex way.

The great thing about these lists is they define singing regardless of genre (singing style).  Sure, some genres have a little more of some traits than others.  For instance, country singing is going to employ more resonance (and even more nasality) than, say, an Indie folk singer might.  There’s going to be a lot more balance of resonance needed with an operatic singer than there would be in a contemporary Christian singer.  And that’s OK.  What’s important is that we learn what is correct and healthy and desirable, and then and only then, can we begin to modify and make changes depending on the style and the needs of a song.

Have you learned anything from this post?  Would you like to know more about each desirable singing trait and how to achieve it in detail?  Then, I encourage you to sign up for my FREE 2-WEEK MINI COURSE that will explain in detail what each trait I’ve listed means and how to achieve it.  The desirable ones, that is…

Hope to see you there!

xoxo,

Amy

(*) – Vocal fry refers to a singing or speaking method at the lowest possible register (if you want to call it a register) where the cords rub together and pop and rattle.  Think frog.  Think gravelly.  Think Kardashians.

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