This past week, my kids and I embarked on a journey of a lifetime and flew to Europe. I’ve been wanting to travel internationally with them for years, but our financial situation was prohibitive, our time was limited and to be honest, they weren’t at an age before where they would have been much fun to be around. I really wanted to get past the stage of diapers, bottles and potty training before we made this trek again. And now…we’re past it!
Why was this so important to me?
You see, I studied abroad and traveled quite a bit when I was in my twenties, and subsequently, I met and married a wonderful man from Vienna, Austria where I lived, studied and worked for almost 4 years. As soon as he and I married, however, we decided to move back to the U.S. and settle down in Austin, TX. Don’t ask me why we did this. At the time, it seemed like better opportunities awaited and we were both antsy for a change. Although we never anticipated it being a permanent move for us, as we still loved the place where we met and my husband grew up, we have grown to call Austin, TX our home for the past 15 years. And yet…our heart beckons for travel and adventure and desperately longs to be back in Austria and reconnect with our roots. And here we finally are!
I’d venture to say that once you travel abroad, you never lose the bug. Am I right? I think it stays with you forever, and there’s a part of you that always longs for those places where you discovered who you were and realized that the world around you was so vast and so different than the place you came from. In German, the word Fernweh has an even stronger meaning than Wanderlust. While someone with Wanderlust might think of a place they once traveled fondly and fantasize about going back, Fernweh is a deep sort of longing that won’t let up. It’s less about fantasizing and more about homesickness for another place.
That’s how I feel about Europe. I feel homesick for it. Especially Austria. The sights, the smells, the language, the food…all add up to an experience you can’t even put into words. It’s a part of me, like a limb, calling me back home. While I am a U.S. citizen and grew up in the Midwest doing everything people do there, I have a different kind of citizenship with Austria. In a way, I felt more at home the first time I went there than I ever felt in my hometown. It was as if I finally found where I belonged. And it felt good!
It’s also a huge part of my children’s heritage that they should know about and understand completely. Since my husband is Austrian, my children are half-Austrian. It’s important that they know who they are and where they’re partially from. It’s important that they understand how they might also identify more in some areas with that side of their family and less in others. And I take great responsibility when it comes to showing them who their ancestors are and what this culture is all about — even if they were born in and live in a completely different culture.
So, there ya have it! We are embracing this Austrian culture over the next 5 weeks, and while there will be challenges in doing so, I could not be happier to be here with my 3 children.
Is there somewhere you’d just love to go back to? I’d love to hear about it.
I’m looking forward to sharing our adventures with you one amazing bite and drink and sight and smell at a time, and encouraging YOU to do the same with your children. You won’t regret it!
xo,
Amy
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